Another trick to ending major sh*t in your life..?

I feel like I “should” write this blog. I mean, I must write this blog. If I had really thought “I should write it,” then you wouldn’t be reading it right now. I think the main reason is I have written a couple and I have a few people writing me that they feel better. I think that’s why I need to write this one too. I want to get momentum for you in your life so that you get what you want.

I find that when my intention is to make other people happier, more then myself, two things happen. . .

1. I end up focusing on what I did that they chose to hear and apply to make themselves happier.

2. I end up way happier myself, and forget all the crap going on in my life. In fact, the crap stops existing.

A couple people (very little though) have been saying my inspirational stuff is a little different for them then what they are used to. Well first of all, how boring, living your life expecting things that you are already used to. There is no growth there. People need to think out of the box and remember all of the things that they are capable of doing.

When I look at the things that I am passionate about, the things that completely make time fly, the things I was born to do, it includes, comedy, singing, playing most instruments by ear, writing, directing, producing, helping others, networking, thinking out of the box, etc.

I get excited when I am watching the results of people get better. I am passionate about it. I can’t stop. If I can say things that can make a person change their thinking from doubt and fear to belief and
accomplishment, it is easy. It is also much easier to live life this way. When you are helping someone else, there is no question, no wondering. You just do it.

If your mom was in a house that was on fire, you would drop everything, and just save her. You would run into a burning building, without thought. So why do we stall out with every other decision we make?
Should we go to this restaurant or this one? Sometimes that question goes on for a half an hour. I need to call the bank today. (2 hours later) I still need to call the bank today. (2 hours later again) FUCK! I still need to call the bank today. Way to add a day of stress to a 5 minute task.

Every second you are at a fork in the road and you are being asked to make a decision. No decision is wrong. There are no regrets. Whatever has already happened, happened. The past is done existing. The
question now is “What will you do with it?” So since you are at this fork in the road, make a decision.

“I will weigh x by x date”, or “I like my weight right here.” People who think either of those at least have a sense of choice and direction. “I should lose weight” is what people say who want to stress. Really? You should? Then why aren’t you? Now you are setting yourself to live life with regret.

You have a choice every second. Your instinct is always right too. If you think “I want a way better job, now.” You will go get the better job now. But if you say “I should go get one,” you are already saying “I
won’t, but I will regret it a lot. Also I will make everyone hear about it, and then slow their lives down too”

If the idea of a “better job” for instance enters your mind. GO GET IT NOW. If you know you “should” change the relationship you are in, CHANGE IT NOW. You won’t believe the ease you will feel by ending
procrastination and grabbing your life by the horns. Just flow with your thoughts and the situation around you. It actually is that easy. I want my house clean, CLEAN IT! RIGHT NOW. Tony Robbins says “Change
happens in an instant. What takes a while is people’s decision to make change.”

Spend today acting instinctively with every thought. Every time you think “I should,” DO IT RIGHT THEN.

Have you ever thought of an idea for an invention or a TV show and didn’t do anything about it and then later, saw your invention in stores or on TV? What is the difference between you and the people who sold it?  They ended the word should. They just thought, how can I get this sold, NOW? Then they looked at their resources (we have internet, also, you are two moves away from everyone. You know someone who knows someone. This is the time that everyone is connected in the world) and make decisions.

Today, every time you have an idea, either go with it, or let it go forever. Just try it for one day. If you think of someone you need to call, just do it right there. If you think you need to go to the gym, do it right there. You won’t believe how good and powerful you feel by the end of the day because you made a choice and didn’t let your lack of choices run your life.

Want to take your life to a way higher level? Do this.

–kylecease

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4 Responses to “Another trick to ending major sh*t in your life..?”

  1. Chet Wild Says:

    So today I was thinking, “I should do this video podcast series idea” . . . well, no more thinking about it. It’s happening.

    Thanks Kyle.

    Also, I sent you an e-mail… if you have a few moments, hit me back.

    Chet
    http://www.ChetWild.com

  2. Comedian Mikey Two-Shoes Says:

    I am slowly but surely opening up to this stuff. It’s getting better… and someday you guys won’t hate me for being me…

  3. Chad Says:

    I love this stuff man! It’s so inspiring! It’s also very generous of someone that has “made it” to share the secrets of their success with the world.

    To accomplish my goals, I need ACCOUNTABILITY (which TR also talks about a lot). So, I created a goals group with friends, so you can check in every day with someone else. You can accomplish 5 years worth in 90 days!!

    Thank you for these blogs, Kyle. Much love from South King County!

  4. RJ Cole Says:

    Reminds me of my decision to tell a young comedian what I thought of a video he and his brother produced. The cost was kind of high but it was worth it. This is a very good post Kyle! Good luck with your radio project.

    RJ Cole

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