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How to get the greatest career and rip stress apart

Wednesday, May 28th, 2008

Day 5. Career, your biggest passion.

Please read days 1 through 4 first.

How does it FEEL on the 5th DAY!? Take a second and realize that if you have done any of the things I said and it makes you feel 1 percent better then before…..then it completely works. You want to feel 2 percent better, do a little more. This goes on forever. Keep reading these, and rereading these, and pic up other stuff about self help. Print these blogs to push yourself. Tell your friends that you are going to do all these things so there is no turning back! You are setting an amazing path and if you have read everyone of these. You are capable and driven to keep going. Why? Because you are feeling the change and that is conditioning the positive feeling that is making this start to really work for you. This feeling is what is making you WANT to do more, versus wanting to procrastinate. Now you are going to stress if you DON’T take action. IF you feel pain sitting on the couch versus going after something YOU WILL be amazing.…..it is getting conditioned in you, the positive reinforcement is a reward that is making you want to do it again and again, and we are only on day 5. Wait til next week G-money.

If you have read every single blog, everyday, and you are now reading this one, there is no doubt that you are happier then you were when you started. If anyone is skeptical, they haven’t done this. I guarantee that there is no person who read everyday, took every action and hasn’t felt way happier and accomplished. Always notice the people who are skeptical in your life. Where are they at in theirs? I have always noticed that the people who say “You cant do that!” are usually pretty unhappy people. Anyone who might disagree with this thinking, I will say it again, they would rather be right, then happy. Realize that I am happy almost all of the time. Problems excite me and make me grow. I know how to get what I want. I see things bigger. I am getting amazing responses and love reading every single one. I don’t get sick anymore, I am getting younger, getting more accomplished and I feel that I can take on anything.

So every single day, I have been getting more views then the day before. I know its some of you showing your friends, I know its some of you reading all previous blogs, I know its some of you repeating blogs. Awesome. Whatever the case, awesome. It is very easy to slip back into the old way that society has presented us. Society is always happening around us. We are people who decide to create a belief system based on what society shows us is possible. Remember. That is a low standard. Imagine how different this world would be if everyone thought this way. The changes, the health, the growth, the economy, everything. That’s why I am writing this. I am hoping that as you start to notice that you are getting a mind set that is making you happier, stronger, healthier, etc, you share it with others. This thing is spreading like wildfire. 500 views the first day, 800 the second, 1000 the third, 1400 the 4th.

You might hear this and think, “That is actually kind of crazy, being happy all of the time.” Is it really? I feel that when we are sad, that is our emotions telling us to make a change. It is our body and heart saying something is wrong. So if my emotions are down, it is a call out. If people are depressed because they hate their job, change your job! If you think, “Can I get a different job?” then you are asking a level 2 question. Move it to level one. “How can I get a different job?” If you want to make it really level 1 you should say, “HOW can I get a way BETTER job that will fulfill me and make me feel a sense of purpose, getting paid for something I love to do?”

Its amazing how I watched my mom make that switch. Last year I went to a seminar. It was a four day seminar, one of many avenues that I learned from what I am talking about to you. It was so empowering. I took it one week before I shot Weirder, Blacker, Dimpler, my one hour Comedy Central special. (by the way, this isn’t to sell anything, but if you have seen it on Comedy Central, you haven’t seen shit. It was edited wrong and I recommend the DVD of the unedited version, which includes the documentary, Comedy 101 that focuses on the same thing my blogs are about.) After I came out of this seminar, my first thought was I really want my mom to go to this.

I called my mom and said “Mom, I am sending you to this seminar, and I am paying for it.” She, like all caring moms said, “No, I am not going to let you spend 1000 dollars on me.” I said “Mom, I don’t care about money, I see the result being huge here.” Its funny how after that seminar, all I was focused on was the result. Mom and I had this argument back and forth until she literally had no choice but to go because I wasn’t backing down. After DAY 1, she called me and said she had felt so so so happy. DAY 2 was even better and so on. Well, at the end they offer a much bigger set of seminars that is so big. It literally costs 10,000 dollars and mom insisted on buying it for me. Its funny how, even though, that wasn’t my intention, I got a return of 10,000 dollars in 4 days when originally the worry was me losing 1000.

At this seminar, my mom started learning how her passions could be a job. She had always worked good regular jobs in management and owned a company with my dad and so on. Up until this seminar she had jobs that were good, but not really her passion.

As I said with mapquest earlier, you have to write out what you do want versus what you don’t want. My mom realized what her passions were. She had two passions; art and real estate. My mom has always been an amazing artist and up until this point, had been doing it for fun. She also loved real estate. All my life I watched as she loved looking at new houses being built and studying things like, what their value is, how many rooms, etc.

You have to realize that whatever you passion is, whatever you love doing, there is a career for it. EVERYTHING. IF your passion is video games, you could work at Nintendo as a game tester. If its shooting guns, own a gun range, actually you could automatically think bigger and own several ranges. Seriously, even if your passion is that you like to talk a lot. Look at what I do. I have two different careers going here that are just me not shutting up. Its so funny how my mom didn’t even realize that this was her passion. Up until the seminar, art and real estate was just some side stuff that mom really loved to do for fun.

Well now she started being trained to think, “HOW can I use these two passions and have a career with it?” Her answer came to her when she realized that, when houses are for sale in magazines, some of them are sketches. Have you ever seen a picture of a house for sale in a magazine, and then right next to it, there is a sketch? My mom realized she could draw those sketches. Her next question kicked in. “HOW do I get this as a career?” This is so cute. She drew a house. Put it on a business card that says “Nancy Cease, Real Estate artist” and just went to different places like Century 21 and John L Scott real estate and handed them the card. She set a price and now she does it. No previous experience. A lot of people wouldn’t have even tried this because they would think “I don’t have enough experience, no one would hire me.” Mom didn’t care at all now.

I have been over while she is drawing it. You should see how excited she gets. She is bouncing up and down all of the time going “Kyle, look at this one too!!!” She is now happy. Her daily routine is only fun for her. Her job is just fun. It is a hobby that pays really well. Just like what I do. I love doing this so much. Any of you can do this with your passion too.

If you want this, you need to ask yourself a level one question. It is the most stress relief you can have. The reason that a lot of drug free comedians and cartoonists (Bob Hope, George Burns, Milton Berle, Charles Schultz, Mel Blanc, ETC) lived to be almost, or over 100 years old, is because they never worked a day in their lives. They had much less stress. If you aren’t completely in love with your job. Start figuring out your passion even if its farting and ask 10 level one questions. Then when you get the answer to that, ask 10 more to the question that follows.

Check out this goal of mine…. I will have an entire new website up by the end of next week. A completely revamped www.kylecease.com. Tomorrow I have a meeting with Comedy Central for some big new possibilities. Major Major changes and growth in the last 4 freaking days.

The first 20 responses to this will get a comment back from me. I hope you enjoyed the new video about me and handicapped people out today.

Coming up, relationships, anxieties, everything…..this is the most fun I have ever had in my life. Please keep the responses coming, its my positive reinforcement to writing these….

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